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secrets to happiness

11/27/2014

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Just so you know, I am not going to talk about anything mind boggling. I’m simply going to remind you of something that we sometimes forget in our pursuit of happiness.

I hosted a little expat Thanksgiving last weekend and it reminded me of how grateful I am for the people around me, both here and at home. I was surrounded by all of these amazing people from all over the world and we all agreed that, more than anything, we were grateful for each other. Without each other we could not be happy. 

We often underestimate how much we need people. We fight vigilantly to be independent at various points in our lives. We get tired of depending so heavily on other people and want the ability to do it alone. Rarely do we recognize the impact that these people actually have on us. We think that we WANT them in our life, but don’t necessarily NEED them to be happy.

Being so far from my friends and family has helped me to realize that we(I) need people more than we’re(I’m) sometimes willing to admit and these people are the key to our happiness. They say that we don’t know what we have until its gone and the cliché is so true. This is one of the many keys to a happier life, a grateful spirit for the people around you. They've made you who you are and they may not always be so accessible (despite technological advances). 


Remember to let these people know that you are grateful for them. Whether they’re far away or right beside you. Don’t underestimate the impact that a simple text or card could have on someone’s day. You'll find a little more love in your life and if that doesn't make you happy then I don't know what will. 


 So much love and thanks from me to you! Enjoy your Thanksgiving and try not to let Black Friday overshadow your quality time with friends and family.
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November: Taking stock

11/23/2014

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A slightly different post than normal, but we all need to check-in with ourselves and others every once in a while. Here is what I have been up to and enjoying this month. 

Drinking:
Starbucks Toffee Nut Latte 
Simply exquisite. I will accept all judgments on my overpriced latte purchasing. Seriously….try it. Unless you’re allergic to nuts. 

Reading: All the Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr 
The magical interweaving of two young lives, Marie Laure a blind french girl and Werren a German military specialist. Beautiful diction, observations and depictions of every corner of the heart. Simply a joy to read. 

Wanting: To see the English country side
It would be a shame to live in England and only see London

Watching: Ugly Betty
Because I FINALLY figured out how to watch American Netflix in the UK. I use Hola!

Enjoying: Balance (or some simulation there of) 
Americans do too much, we rush around trying to ‘achieve’ all of these things when we really need to spend time living, loving, and exploring a little more. 

Liking: Moleskine travel journal
My favorite travel companion. If you want to travel you NEED this journal. Thanks Wynn for the wonderful gift! 
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Wondering: What’s next in life and how will i change over the next several months
but also trying not to dote on the subject. Whatever happens happens and I want to enjoy life as it is right now. 

Loving: Citymapper/transportation
Citymapper will be your best friend if you live in a big city. It will show you how to get anywhere via foot, taxi, bus, tube or train. Which platform to go to, directions to the bus stop, etc. A city slicker’s must have app! 
Transportation is also just a beautiful thing. The ease in which we can experience a variety of things is incredible. Don’t take it for granted. 

Hoping: That you’ll read my posts more often and share them with friends. 
Your participation means a lot to me. 

Needing: Sleep 
I'm either up late doing homework or exploring the world, literally and figuratively. It could be worse.   

Wearing: Anthropologie Maija Cocoon cardigan, Clan Checked scarf, skinny jeans, combat boots, sweater - I love feeling cosy. 
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Following: Tea Was Here
Honest and refreshing reviews of London restaurants, events, and places to see and also just life in general. 

Buying:  Train tickets 
All the time. To Central London, to Dublin, to Brussels. It’s the right way to travel. 

Bookmarking: Yoga Farm
I will go here one day! 
7 Strange Questions That Help You Find Your Life Purpose  
Honestly I haven’t read the article, but I’ve been meaning too for several weeks! Its the thought that counts, right? 

Disliking: No fall in London
The leaves did, eventually, change, but I miss football (American), oversized cardigans, pumpkins, pumpkin spice. And then this happened….
Me: Do you have any fall scented candles? 
Sales Lady: Ugggghhhh…..we have cranberry
Me: ……… 


How has your month been? What you have been up to lately? 
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13 things To do besides get engaged

11/2/2014

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My timeline posts fit into one of three categories. 1) people getting engaged 2) people getting married and 3) people who went to the wedding. I sit back on my couch in an oversized sweatshirt, leggings, and messy bun and think "thank God I'm single." I'm very excited for all of these people who are taking this step in their relationship, but can't help but think of all of the other things that I can do without a significant other. So here they are: 13 things to do besides get engaged. 

1- Have a one night stand (nobody's going to get upset with you).
2- Learn a new language. 
3- Eat a pint of Ben and Jerry’s ice cream while binge watching episodes of Sherlock Holmes (or whatever you show of choice is). 
4- Start a new hobby.
5- Go to a different country (and meet a cute boy...or girl). 
6- Date yourself.
7- Plan your wedding on pinterest (because its kind of weird once you're in a relationship). 
8- Not shave your legs for a week or two or three.
9- Buy lingerie for yourself (because you deserve to look good!). 
10- Finally read all of the books on your booklist.
11- Learn to cook (because we all know you’re tired of ramen and take away).
12- Sleep diagonally!
13- Eat all of the ice cream/popcorn. Drink all of the wine. Basically, don't share with anyone...like ever. 


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